Russian Culture Tips
Some Suggestions for Appropriate Behavior while Visiting Russia
In order to get to know the local culture, first you have to get to know a local or two. Here are some practical tips on how to behave yourself in the Russian Federation
Here are some tips for the traveler seeking to get to know, and therefore be more comfortable with, Russian culture.
Russian culture is incredibly rich in history and tradition. Perhaps due to Russia's isolation from the rest of the world, and the Asian, Mongol and Tatar influence, Russian culture is strikingly different from that of the West, including Europe and the United States.
Russia has recently seen major Western influences pervade its society, from pop music to Western ideas of how business should be conducted. Russians have been required to adapt, with more or less success, to these influences, while struggling (often very stubbornly) to maintain a Slavic sense of identity and their own unique and valid way of viewing the world.
Many cultural guides to Russia cite such banalities as the cold climate and the despotism of Russian leaders as keys to completely understanding Russian culture, but the educated and open-minded traveler would be better served listening to Russians themselves.
What this article provides, then, is some tips on how to get to know Russians in their own environment. Let them show you, if they so choose, the key to the famous "Russian Soul." In order to get to know Russian better, travelers should avoid making the following social blunders:
- Talking Too Loudly: Americans, especially, are famous the world over for broadcasting their conversations for everyone around them to hear. Russians find this "nekulturniy" (uncultured), and you will notice that it gets you not-so-approving looks even on a crowded street. Take note of, and try imitating, the much lower volume that Russians speak at when they converse with others.
- Smiling Too Much: One of the mistakes that Westerners make is assuming that everybody loves a nice, sunny smile. This is not actually the case in Russia. Russians do smile (though you might not think so riding the Moscow Metro) but they do so only when they have a reason. (And "just being alive" isn't considered a good reason). They find constant smiling false and a bit "Glupiy" (silly).
- Apologizing All the Time: Something Russians often mention is the Western habit of apologizing for nearly everything, including things that are not a person's fault. Don't say "I'm sorry," when someone gives you bad news. Try the more clear "That's a shame." Save "I'm sorry" for when you've actually done something to offend someone.
- Being False: Russians value honesty, even brutal honesty, much more than niceties. Don't bother being "nice." Instead, be real. Be open and honest, and it will be much appreciated.
- Making Snap Judgments: Americans often like to express their opinions about everything around them. However, openly criticizing a culture or a country you have just arrived in is a bad idea anywhere, but especially here. Russian national pride runs deep. Think twice before making overly negative comments about Russia. Remember, you are a guest here. Try to behave like one.
So, now you have avoided the above gaffes and managed to secure that greatest of things: an invitation to a Russian home. Here are some things to make your stay there pleasant and enjoyable.
- Take off Your Shoes: Russians do not wear their shoes in the house. You should remove your shoes in the entryway. Often your hosts will have a set of "tapechki" (slippers) for you to wear during your visit. In general, keep your feet off of tables and furniture. And always take off your coat in any building that has a coatroom. Most Russian buildings do.
- Bring a Gift: It's probably universal: almost everyone likes to receive presents from abroad. Something to remember to take with you are small gifts that can be given to new friends in Russia. Something "national," such as a traditional craft, will be treasured by your host. Avoid bringing knives as gifts, as they are considered bad luck. If you bring flowers (also an excellent gift) bring an odd number.
- Don't Expect a Tour: Americans often greet guests by touring them around the house. This is not the case in Russia, where personal space is often at a premium. Expect to spend your time in the common areas of the apartment, and don't be nosy and peek into the bedroom.
- Avoid Politics: Westerners in general, and Americans in particular, love to talk politics. Be careful what you say. There are other, more pleasant topics. Russians generally bear no ill will toward Americans as individuals, but our government's foreign policy has not made us popular overseas, and even Britain and Europe have lately done things that offend the Russian sense of order. Avoid criticizing the Russian leadership, as well; it's unlikely that you are an authority on Russian politics. Find another subject.
- Keep in Touch: Russians are, in general, a warm-hearted people, and when they call you a friend, they mean it. Take this vacation in Russia as a chance to develop enduring ties with people here. If you say you will write, follow up on your promise! For Russians, out of sight is not out of mind.
Have a great time in Russia! I hope these tips will help you get along in the Russian Federation. Also consider this book list for further knowledge of Russian culture. Or, you can learn more about Russian Superstitions.
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